2,000 – Thank You!

Posted on by ben Alexander

Several months ago, ‘The Skeptic’s Kaddish’ reached 1,000 subscribers, and today I am moved to share with you today that we’re now at over 2,000, even as this blog is nearing its 1st birthday.

Clearly, WordPress encourages its bloggers to actively engage with and accrue new subscribers, notifying us of likes, follows, consecutive days of postings, etc.; and, to my mind, there’s no metric easier for us to highlight than our subscriber counts. Having said that, while I want to mark the growth of this blog, I am not especially interested in my subscriber count, per se.

In this first year of mine on WordPress, I’ve come across blogs with many, many more subscribers than I have. Some blogs have tens of thousands of subscribers; some blogs have even more. It would seem that gaining subscribers is an industry for some, and there are some experienced bloggers out there who accept payment for guidance on how to follow in their footsteps.

Nevertheless, I have noticed something peculiar that many such bloggers with large followings have in common: They boast of high subscriber counts, but their blog posts generate almost no meaningful human interactions. And this is common, even among those who promote themselves as advisors for hire.

As for me, what I have come to most look forward to are the comments that you, my friends, post in response to my poetry and reflections. This is what most drives me. While I am certainly very proud of having reached 2,000 subscribers on ‘The Skeptic’s Kaddish’, my motivation to create content would drop precipitously and perhaps disappear altogether, if not for all of our lively discussion threads… and it only takes a handful of regular correspondents to leave me feeling fulfilled… feeling as though something significant is transpiring here.

So, to all of you, and especially to those of you who take the time out of your lives to challenge and encourage me, I want to humbly say, “Thank you so much, Friends.”

💝
David

Some thoughts on blogging

Based upon my limited (one year) experience

For those who would like to read on, I am going to share several thoughts about blogging actively and nurturing meaningful human interactions on our blogs:

  • While I don’t prioritize my subscriber count, it does, by virtue of probability, remain very significant. In other words, if increasing numbers of people are exposed to my ideas, it would follow that increasing numbers will be moved to respond with their own ideas;
    • Increasing the visibility of one’s blog is essential for this purpose; and writing compelling content is not enough;
    • One must take the time to interact with other bloggers on their blogs (likes, comments). Really, this is no different than ‘in person’ friendships; why should others be motivated to pay attention to you if you express no interest in them?
    • Also, it requires a great deal of time investment. Is this important enough for you to devote yourself to nurturing such relationships?
  • Having said that, I’ve noticed that the more subscribers a blogger has, the faster his/her subscriber count tends to increase. Likely, this is because having a high subscriber count is a clear signal to others that one’s blog is worth following;
    • I’ve heard it said that people who are in committed romantic relationships are especially attractive to others because their existing relationships are proof of their desirability. Blogging relationships are like that too;
  • Reaching out to and connecting with bloggers who have fewer subscribers than you is a very good idea. First of all, this builds a sense of community for all of us. Second of all, your support for smaller blogs is all the more meaningful to those writers precisely because not many others provide it; and they may very likely be moved to engage with you in substantive discussions;
  • Don’t stretch yourself too thin in reading other blogs and interacting with other bloggers. We are all finite beings, and we must seek reasonable balance. Better to have a few close blogger-friends than many superficial relationships;
  • While interacting with others on their blogs will draw them to yours, only your content will draw them back again. In other words, you must have compelling content. You must have something meaningful to say, and you must be able to convey that well to others. What is your your reason for blogging? What makes your blog uniquely interesting?

219 thoughts on “2,000 – Thank You!”

        1. Lavanya, that’s lovely!

          BTW, please feel free to call me ‘David’, which is my first name. The word ‘ben’ means ‘son of’ in Hebrew, and ‘Alexander’ was my father’s first name.

          ❤
          David

  3. You ask why should others be motivated to read your content if you express no interest in them. Well, for the simple reason that they might find interesting your work while you don’t find theirs. Do you really interact with everyone whose work you like? I don’t, and I’m fine with that. I don’t expect to be liked by someone before I like them or their work.

    Cheers and keep blogging!

    1. Thanks, Lazaros!

      I also wrote this:

      Don’t stretch yourself too thin in reading other blogs and interacting with other bloggers. We are all finite beings, and we must seek reasonable balance. Better to have a few close blogger-friends than many superficial relationships;

      Does that somewhat speak to what you’re suggesting?

      ❤
      David

  5. Congrats on reaching a big mildstone and even more awesome is the awareness u created about quality versus quantity especially when it comes to blogging! I wish u even more success for ur blog 🙂 🙂

        1. it’s almost entirely a matter of leaving your “footprint” everywhere – liking people’s posts, posting comments, joining groups that provide writing prompts & whose members read one another posts, etc., etc.

          2. I try to keep up with d’Verse – https://dversepoets.com/ because I like to write poetry… but if you find people’s blogs, you’ll often see that they’re responding to prompts from various bloggers or groups – I stumbled across d’Verse from another blogger’s poem, and it just rolled on from there.

          3. Ok. I did see d’Verse on a couple of your poems. Thanks David. I’ll try that and keep a look out for others. Cheers

  10. When I started blogging i thought about the number yes and I try to promote my blog the best i can, but now I see it more as a journey, something i put my passion into it and through out the years will show my personal transformation more for myself than others and now I understand what blogging is about. Connect with other bloggers that are on the same journey, makes it even more special. This small community full of thoughts, concerns, themes worth being shared and discussed puts a smile on my face for knowing bloggers are humans fighting to become a better version of themselves 🙂 Thank you for your post and for the advises given 😊

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