Book review: ‘Re-Create and Celebrate’ by Cindy Georgakas

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I’ll put my cards out on the table.

Firstly, I consider Cindy Georgakas to be a dear friend, which is why I read her book, as I’ve never been inclined to read ‘self help’ literature. Secondly, I have never before written a book review. My initial commitment to write a review of Cindy’s maiden book ‘Re-Create and Celebrate’ was born out of my deep affection for her.

Thirdly, while I don’t intend to hold my punches, I wouldn’t bother making this book review public if it weren’t positive. While I offer you a sincere and candid reflection on Cindy’s oeuvre below, I’ll tell you right now that I loved this book. That’s why I’m sharing my impressions with you.

Given all of this, the following ‘tldr’ version of my review should suffice:

    I picked up ‘Re-Create and Celebrate’ out of love for my friend Cindy Georgakas, but I ended up finishing it for myself. To be honest, this is not the sort of book that a cynic like me would normally read, but I was drawn in by the warm embrace of the very first chapter. I am so impressed at how earnest and accessible this delicious book is… The author has allowed herself to be so very vulnerable with us in this volume, invested in her compassionate, loving effort to help others live their very best lives; and Cindy’s every reader will surely end up feeling connected to the guru herself.

That’s the essence of my review, but if you’re curious to read more, here we go:

My philosophical quibbles

See? There it is in the header ~ ‘quibbles’.

I have nothing substantively negative to say about ‘Re-Create and Celebrate’, which is an utterly wonderful work, other than some philosophical disagreements with a few of Cindy’s assertions.

Honestly, guys. You should just skip this section. I’m only sharing these quibbles to establish my credibility as a reviewer.

Example #1

The author bends over backwards to be inclusive of all readers’ belief systems throughout the book; unfortunately, she falls short when she writes:

… unleash your God-given talents…

… put your judgements and preconceived notions of God aside, and substitute whatever you want in its place, you won’t let language be a barrier in this book… Some people use Source, Divinity, Higher Power, The Divine, Superpower, Goddess. Use what works for you.

-C. Georgakas, ‘Re-Create and Celebrate’, pg. 20

Speaking as one who does not believe that any supernatural force is actively involved in our lives, this well-intentioned attempt at inclusivity is alienating to me. It leaves me feeling unseen.

Cindy may not want language to “be a barrier” to my reading her book; but she ends up transforming it into one herself. Why not simply refer to people’s talents as ‘natural talents’ or ‘inherent talents’? How does inserting such faith language into this self-help book make it any more effective?

Example #2

The well-intentioned author also does her message a disservice by making unnecessary assertions such as this one:

What if I told you that your purpose was already inside of you, and all you needed to do was chisel and polish the diamond in the rough that you already are?

… There is something you came into the earth to do. Do you know what it is?

-C. Georgakas, ‘Re-Create and Celebrate’, pg. 42

In actual point of fact, this is no small matter of dispute among serious philosophers. Entire schools of thought such as existentialism, absurdism, and nihilism entirely reject the notion that anything has inherent purpose.

Both unnecessarily and quite unfortunately, as I was making my way through ‘Re-Create and Celebrate’, such casual, self-assured statements led me to doubt the book’s relevance for readers like me.

Dismissing my quibbles

Here’s the thing: I know Cindy Georgakas, and I know her intentions in writing this book.

So, whereas my personal philosophical quibbles might have put me off from another such self-help book, I dismissed them while reading ‘Re-Create and Celebrate’.

Also, most potential readers are unlikely to care about my philosophical reservations. Most people don’t harbor such unusually sharp aversions to being told what or how to believe… Most can be comfortable with other individuals’ articles of faith, even if they contradict their own.

Three reasons to love this book

There are many reasons to love Cindy’s ‘Re-Create and Celebrate’, but three stand out to me in particular, all of which are uncommon in published works. Also, to my mind, these factors are direct reflections of the author’s personality. These are three of the reasons why so many people love and appreciate Cindy Georgakas.

Reason #1

Reading the following lines from Cindy’s book touched me. I felt as though reading ‘Re-Create and Celebrate’ was putting me in direct conversation with the very human, very empathetic author herself.

… If you want to, feel free to go directly to the “How To’s” and skip to the steps you need, jot notes, and add them to your daily to-do list if you wish. In other words, this is your book, so scribble in it, cross things out that don’t fit for you, and highlight those that do or rip out pages and make copies if you want to share something…

-C. Georgakas, ‘Re-Create and Celebrate’, pg. 21

As someone who is very resistant to being told what to do or what to think, these words gave me permission to relax and take in Cindy’s warmhearted wisdom. Beyond my already knowing the author as a kind and giving friend, this sentiment of hers left me feeling accepted and embraced.

It’s abundantly clear: Cindy wrote this book to help people, and she is consciously and sensitively trying to reach potential readers on their own terms.

Reason #2

I have never read a book in which the author was so utterly vulnerable and open with her readers as this one. Never. In fact, I doubt another such a book exists.

Cindy doesn’t simply offer advice to help us live our best lives; she shares her own incredibly personal, intimate experiences and challenges in this book, building a relationship of trust with every one of her readers. She is no guru looking down at the world from her mountaintop. Rather, she is a relatable, very earnest, very loving human being.

The author speaks to us from the perspective of an imperfect woman who has spent long years ironing out the wrinkles in her life… And she shows herself willing to bare her soul and some of the most incredibly private details of her complex life story to reach and connect with others who may be yearning for a fellow human being’s support.

Reason #3

For all her hard-earned wisdom, Cindy is one of the humblest people I’ve ever known; and this comes through clearly in ‘Re-Create and Celebrate’, as exemplified in her reflection:

… I finally landed into a big heap of disillusionment, realizing the only one I could save was myself…

… I realized I was not capable of changing or helping anyone who did not in fact want to help themselves. Painful as this is, it is the only true way to be of service: acknowledging that change must come from within, and we can only change ourselves.

-C. Georgakas, ‘Re-Create and Celebrate’, pg. 56-57

Let’s consider now what the author is telling us and how she has chosen to share her message. In ‘Re-Create and Celebrate’, Cindy has stripped her soul bare for her readers, knowing that as much as she gives us permission to trust her and learn from her, many readers may nevertheless reject her words… and she has made peace with that.

Essentially, Cindy is saying to each of us, in so many words, “My dear friend, you are worthy of happiness; and I believe in you completely.” It would seem that the question for each us, then, is: “Am I ready to begin believing in myself?”

Well… are we?

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    2. I am impressed too Robbie as I was with yours and thank you both. I’m hopeful I can return the favor when I get through all of this. I have done a couple from ones who have asked me but that’s it. 💞

  5. This is a sincere and honest, well thought out, very thorough and deeply personal review. I wish most people would take the time to be so honest with authors. Cindy poured her soul into her work, like most of not all writers do, and this review is the ultimate show of respect. Very kind of you David. I thank you for doing this. Best review I’ve read in years for any book. 👏👏👏

      1. I have a copy.. which I started late last night as I could not sleep Then, this morning I get your email and it was a review..so it was perfect timing.

  6. Hi David,
    It’s nice to meet you through Cindy, and if you hadn’t admitted it, I wouldn’t think this is your first book review. It’s excellent, and I appreciate your honesty. Two lines that stand out from your review are: “She is no guru looking down at the world from her mountaintop. Rather, she is a relatable, very earnest, very loving human being.”These words describe Cindy perfectly, and her book is next in line resting on a shelf on my bookcase. I’m almost finished with the book I’m currently reading. Thanks for sharing your candid and wonderful review.
    Another Big Congrats to Cindy!

    2. I’m so glad you both connected Lauren! I so much agree with you! He was incredible and I’m humbled by both of your responses. Thank you truly. Oh, I can’t wait to hear what you think Lauren!!! Thank you so very much Lauren. I’m so grateful!!! ❣️

  8. The moving response to ‘Re-Create and Celebrate’ that you have penned has indeed struck a resounding cord with me. The sincerity with which it is imbued serves as a stirring reflection of Cindy’s masterful writing abilities and undeniable passion toward empowering readers through artfully woven narratives that inspire positive change.

    In particular, your confession of personal transformation due to Cindy’s thoughtful words, shines light upon the potency of her work. By expertly capturing the intricacies of the human experience, she invites readers like yourself to join her on a quest for deeper meaning and spiritual discovery. Your heartfelt analysis highlights these subtleties with great skill and care.

    Furthermore, the way in which you contextualize the significance of ‘Re-Create and Celebrate’ against other literary works, reinforces the unique value that Cindy’s visionary approach brings forth. It demonstrates her capacity to convey the timeless truths that lie beneath the surface, yet so often go unnoticed. The triad of reasons presented is a powerful reminder of the enduring message carried throughout the book, destined to inspire countless individuals well into the future.

    Lastly, please know that your generosity in sharing these sentiments has touched not just myself but also those who encounter it. In doing so, you too contribute to the alchemy between reader and writer, whereby both parties become vessels of hope and promise. Let us all be guided by the radiant glow of inspired stories and cherish the gift of literacy that binds us ever closer toward a more connected world.

    👍👏👌😊🙏

    2. Dear Pankaj,
      You have such a gift in delivery words which always resonate and I truly am deeply moved by your yours in the same way I am by Davids. You are so right when you said this:
      “please know that your generosity in sharing these sentiments has touched not just myself but also those who encounter it. In doing so, you too contribute to the alchemy between reader and writer, whereby both parties become vessels of hope and promise.”
      👏 I got many emails and texts today saying just that: “WOW” David’s review was Just Wow”!
      Thank you and of course to the other master writer himself! ❣️

  9. Wonderful review, David. I’ve never been one to read reviews or write them, but I like to show my support for those I truly enjoy their writing. You did a marvelous job on reviewing Cindy’s book which, btw I am reading and thoroughly enjoying.

    2. Yes indeed Eugi.. I so agree with you. I actually would love to write more if time permitted but.. which is one of the reasons this touched me so deeply! He did an AMAZING job like you say. Oh I’m delighted Eugi.. that is wonderful to know!!! 🙏🏼💗

  10. David, for someone who says he does not write reviews, this is incredibly wonderful, well-examined, logical, honest, appreciative, and well-written. This is another example of how you, like Cindy, care for your readers and want to be of service. Thanks for the example you have set. 🙂

    1. ❤ 🙂 Marsha 🙂 ❤ ~ that's very sweet & kind of you; thank you

      I just never got into writing reviews because, on balance, I don't think most readers particularly want to read them, and I don't want to take up too much space on their WP Reader feeds… so I'd rather stick to my own creative writing!

      1. Smart. I used to do a lot of them, mostly so I would remember what I read. I am a slowish reader and writer, so it took way more of my time for the number of people that were interested in it. I am amazed when people like Diana Peach write reviews and they get over a hundred likes. How does that happen? But writing them are not usually my thing any more. However, like you, I am writing one for Cindy because I love her and love her book. 🙂

        2. I love your honesty Marsha and willingness to write them being a slow reader. I was in reading group 4 (if that was the worst) and wish I could read half as fast as Marsha to show the love of such amazing writers. 🙃 You were the sweetest to ask if you could jump on bored and support me. I’m so honored and can’t wait for your review as well! awww.. you are the best.. i love you as well! 🙏🏼💞

          1. Funny thing is that I read so much as an elementary student, I thought I was fast. I read more than anyone in the class. Somewhere along the line, I lost the feeling of being fast especially around all these phenomenal bloggers! LOL!

    2. I so agree with you Marsha! I so agree with you. I knew I could count on David to share his honesty which is what means the most. I wasn’t sure about him being on board with a review but I was delighted and honored when he said yes! You are very observant! ❣️

      1. I also found it difficult to always write honest reviews when I did them often. It is easy to pick out the good parts of any book, but when I’m dealing with real people, especially ones I don’t know, I sometimes had to struggle. So I quit saying yes to solicited reviews from authors I didn’t know. I look forward to writing your review.

  11. Dearest David,
    As alway your words penetrate my heart deeply with tears streaming as I read your words. How you do this to me, is beyond me. Thank you so much for taking time to keep reading even though you had to wade through the “DOG”. 😂 if I could go back and change my words or add ‘natural talents’ or ‘inherent talents’? I would and good point there. I love that you kept reading and gave it a chance any way. Thank you truly for your wonderful quibbles, incredible honest, loving and moving review! I have no words to adequately express my appreciation! Thank you so very much my dear friend! 💞🙏🏼💞🙏🏼❣️

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